Day 166 - Chillen with Snow feeder & (goof up)

Today I am chillen with our cute little winter snowman birdfeeder - he is only out during the late fall and winter - I told my wife that all she has to do is put a tine bikini and sunglasses on it for the summer but she has not yet taken to my idea - 

OK - I did goof up on today's chillen pic - I was going to chill with a a guest author I had coffee with this morning but we got into such fun conversation I blanked --- SO -- Tune in later tomorrow I will have this pic and more on his New book coming out next week! 

Here is a short question - How long does it take before you call someone a friend? In this world friend has such a odd meaing any more FB friends and Circle friends etc.. but can you say they are REAL friends I don't know but in real physical life the question I have to you is :  How long does it take before you call someone a friend?